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Why is forgiveness vital in divorce?

On behalf of Cohen & Lombardo, P.C. • Nov 19, 2019
Choose to stop anger and resentment from destroying your future
Three approaches to forgiving your ex
  • Reject your ex's control over you . When you fail to forgive someone, you allow them control over your well-being. Do not let feelings about your ex to prohibit you from creating the future you want for yourself.
  • Come to terms with your ex's limitations . Your former partner may be incapable of recognizing, and apologizing for, the pain they caused you. Accepting the fact that they have a different perspective may help you let go.
  • Permit yourself to move forward . Divorce can empower you if you choose, rather than force you to accept a victim mentality. There is nothing you can do to improve your past, but you have every right to allow yourself a clean slate for whatever good may come to you in the future.
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